Lahore (Pakistan News) Mathira, the famous actor and host recently shared that when forming a relationship or connection with someone, she first shows them “hell” before leading them to “heaven.”
In an interview, Mathira revealed that she had many unresolved issues with her father and did not speak to him from the age of 14 until his passing a few years ago.
She explained that her father left her when she needed him the most, but tried to reconnect once she became successful. By then, she chose not to respond to him.
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Mathira emphasized that those who abandon you in difficult times should not be welcomed back during your good times. However, she mentioned that after her father’s death, she forgave him and let go of all grievances.
She also spoke about her marriage, calling her divorce the greatest sorrow of her life. Mathira revealed that she endured years of physical and mental abuse from her husband, trying to save the marriage, but in the end, her husband left her, which devastated her. Looking back, she feels foolish for tolerating the abuse for so long.
Mathira shared that while she maintains friendly relationships with her ex-boyfriends, there are no longer any romantic connections. She also mentioned that she jokes around with friends using harsh language but approaches conflicts with calmness and respect to avoid hurting anyone.
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She noted that many people misinterpret her words and behave rudely towards her, but when faced with disrespect, she responds assertively. Mathira stated that if someone treats her like a lady, she reciprocates, but if not, she can “become a man” and stand up for herself.
In her view, showing someone the harsh reality of “hell” is a test; if they stay with her through that, they deserve to be with her in “heaven” as well.
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